The Way We Talk I suppose everyone has a story and some think that they don’t and that their lives are so glorious, when in reality their lives are mundane. I have went through many many trials, I mean one would look at my life on the outside and think, poor thing, everything always goes wrong for her. Pity her! But I always seem to spring back. Stand strong, not give in or settle and “YES” times have gotten very hard in my life many times or two. However, each trial was and is endured and looked back upon, like “wow” I got through…

How is winning defined This weekend was this little girl I know first Regionals competition for cheer and as I was there watching (which by the way they didn’t place) even though they did a phenomenal routine. They just didn’t place. This time. This young lady said she was happy and sad, she was happy because she was really tired and needed the break. They work 5 days a week with games on Saturdays plus travel games, all while maintaining school homework, family time, friend time and alone time. It is a lot for them at their age,(as well as finding…

Great Relationships Build Autonomy Great relationships build autonomy, as force creates resistance. I give this Dr. his credit for saying that because and not in the most elite words he used but one of my most recent blogs was about this the other day. don’t  force your child, ask them questions. If they aren’t doing so well in school ask them what they think is the problem and create autonomy. By doing this you are allowing them to stay true to themselves the values you have set for your family and cultivating a relationship that doesn’t take being a friend to your…

Kindness I am learning since I have become injured and hopefully temporarily. That people are looking for love and understanding. I have become an avid seller by God’s Grace on Ebay because I knew I was going down hill and unable to work. I can’t just sit idle I have never been able too. I know how to survive and now I know how to trust the Lord for all things. However, I learned by becoming a seller that people will be very very rude but if you respond with politeness and some form of sorrow and maybe making it…

Feeling Judged or Condemned As I sit here and study for a bit, I had a thing come to mind to write about.It is on judgement and feeling condemned by others. The question that arose was do you really feel judged or are you condemning yourself and then perceiving judgement?Many people are offended these days as I am sure it will as they have been in past times but nothing like now. People rather hear lies then the truth. Hey, if it suits their comfort great. We are here to lift our brother and sisters up in Christ and for…

Trials and Character lI’m glad I’m writing on here and keeping up with my thoughts, when my brain isn’t foggy, adjusting or processing. It works exactly like a computer and I would say that our brains are better then a computer to say not, is to say that a computer a machine is smarter then us. I beg to differ!! I was injured and I always try to look for the fault that I have caused in any circumstance, am I being selfish, is there something better I could of done, did I take advantage of that person in anyway.…