Vanessa Colavolpe-Mcclain

There is a lot to say but I will keep it simple. I consider myself to be a very deep thinker, benefit of the doubter, free-thinker lover of people and souls. I am as well learning to love and know myself as I know and love others. I know to love another you must love yourself first.

I believe we can get tainted by others, circumstances and the world and then we form wrong thinking about ourselves from others opinions of who they think you are. We truly know ourselves but some don’t want to face themselves and some are done right evil.
What I know about myself is I am a very driven not competitive. Drive comes from within like passion,

I am compassionate, loving and understanding to those that show they want better then who they were yesterday and the rest I pray for. Lord knows I need prayer as well. I can be a bit pure hearted, wanting to believe the best in everyone and didn’t really know what normal looked like, I only knew I wasn’t ok with dysfunction or things that did not feel right but it took a lot of hard lessons to learn that because what is normal to one may not be normal to another and some normalize their own dysfunction.

I am kind and just a big lover inside but walk with a turtle shell on my back, it takes a bit to get through but once you get through their is an unconditional, non-judging, loving, meet you where your at women. However , if I am abused or put into a circumstance where I feel disrespected or abused I will dim my compassionate nature and turn on tough love.

I have developed that ability and it doesn’t mean I don’t feel or love you. It means I love myself more to say I must disengage. Other then that, I consider myself to be simple as simple as it can be despite this is life and we are out here for a purpose and we will go through things staying on the path of our destiny. But it is worth it. Here is my journey in away I know I how to express myself as I am not good with cameras, videos or v logging.

I consider myself a writer, researcher and info gatherer to help myself and then other.
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