I suppose everyone has a story and some think that they don’t and that their lives are so glorious, when in reality their lives are mundane.

I have went through many many trials, I mean one would look at my life on the outside and think, poor thing, everything always goes wrong for her. Pity her! But I always seem to spring back. Stand strong, not give in or settle and “YES” times have gotten very hard in my life many times or two.

However, each trial was and is endured and looked back upon, like “wow” I got through that

I may not be where I want to be but thank God, j am not where I used to be.

Joyce Myers

Literally, the way we talk to ourselves matters, we don’t think so and it’s innocent. Right? I mean who cares if you say ” this is going to be an awful day, today” or “oh man I really don’t want to go into work today, the boss is going to be a so rude again” or “why am I always fighting with my kids” or we say “how tired we are” or ” how we don’t have enough”

We speak life or death over ourselves everyday, how many times has someone been in pain and said ” Oh my gosh, I am dying” I raise my hand because it was only a couple of days ago that I had to catch myself and say, “Vanessa don’t speak those words”

It’s a constant reminder to speak and remain in a good stance no matter the circumstances.

I have had my battle field lately in life and I thought I had been through a lot before, “whoa is me for thinking, I have been through enough. I don’t think we ever stop having things happen we may get a break and have times, months maybe years of awesomeness but no matter what there are those times and for some more then others.

It’s in those time we must learn to stand firm, catch yourself complaining to yourself and others. “Oh trust me, I’m injured but the more I talk about it to others the more I realize just how much I am magnifying the problem and then I am so exhausted to fight for a solution and I have had some days like that.

Anyone would after 12 months but that is a blog for another time. I am new to blogging but not new to writing.

We will see where this blogging takes me, if anywhere. I know my passion for it, is to help others.

If any of my upcoming blogs even so much resonates with others and they can relate and get help or know there is help, even if it’s one.

Then it was worth it and stay tuned because I swear, you couldn’t make up the life I am about to reveal to you in small doses as well as research that empower, teaches and gives knowledge and wisdom into some very sadistic character personalities that could be your lover, friend, family member or boss even maybe yourself.

And just how powerful your words and the words you listen to are of very much importance.

If you read this far! You may just stay tuned, share, read, tell others or be interested enough to continue to follow this journey.

This journey of mine has not been talked about in so much detail in my entire life of my finally 40’s the raw truth no matter the cost.

All things must be brought into light but names can be changed to not harm another or have the intent to embarrass.

I thought this an appropriate quote, for the first Journey Blog! We will be limited by our fears, they can be our GREATEST WEAKNESSES or OUR GREATEST STRENGTHS…….. I hope you enjoy my blog today…..😊. Stay tuned…👍 there will be a lot more, depending how this goes.

Anything, that is meant to be will be. 💕💕